This afternoon, however, when the boys had seemingly declared war on each other, I realised that it was time I intervened.
And brought peas to the warring factions.
I think that peas are an altogether fabulous weapon of mass distraction for children. And perhaps in particular for little boys, because you are literally handing them something and saying please break this apart and pull out its insides, which is a little boy's natural instinct anyway.

We didn't pick a whole lot of peas, just a handful each. We carefully shelled them with our grubby little hands, and soon had a big bowlful to share.
We cooked them for about a minute in boiling water and ate them up, one at a time.
And I don't have a photo, but peace really was restored between the nations and they were last seen laughing together over a shared snack of greens.If only more of the world's problems could be solved with peas.





13 comments:
I agree with your sentiments. Shelling peas is very therapeutic. If your boys get REALLY angry with each other, you must try getting them to carve a pumpkin each (it's nearly that time of year...)
You sound like a pretty awesome mum Ali!
Nice parenting technique (personally I prefer green veg to arming them with knives as Mark suggests....although in a more mature family than mine that could work as well) - I have been trying round up bees to pollinate my broad beans so that I can try my own version. It probably isn't going to work as quickly as I need it to though....
If I could, I would grow whole garden beds full of peas. I would shell them and cook them and eat them all up. Hmmm...I wonder if Maurice Sendak was eating peas when he wrote Where the Wild Things Are.. ;-)
what a wonderful use for the garden, a mediator between warring children. Perhaps that's the mistake I made, I didn't plant peas years ago. Now that they are teenagers, they yell at each, then go to their rooms, and of course slam their downs. Maybe peas will still work.
So not Mary Poppins either. I love peas and my kids eat them frozen from the freezer. Have never quite managed to grow more than a handful, but seeing those beauties, maybe I'll try again.
Another gorgeous bit of Ali wisdom! I really, really do want to adopt you, you know!
I can totally relate to this post Ali, although our peas never made it to the pot! your have a gorgeous blog, thanks for sharing
oh Ali - I have peas too! for the first time ever! I am so proud.. peas be with you ...LOL
The peas look so healthy, good job! Kelli
Thank you for all your lovely comments :) We shelled some more peas today and the boys were very keen again, so it looks like we have found a healthy family fun activity. Luckily I really planted A LOT of peas.
Mmm, peas straight from the garden!
I have to pick way more than I need to allow for eating raw.
One good reason not to grow Mangetout!
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